July 31, 2014

 It's funny huh, yep MAKE-UP.  It's the thing we do or wear in order for people not to see our pain or to camoflouge the unknown or the reoognizeable  So, I ask how do you wear your Make-up ?  When it comes to image some will pretty or doll themselves up so that you can't see past the pretty picture.  It doesn't mean you're ugly but if you lack internally its a must to disguise the unknown.  It's ok to hurt, your only human.  Maybe if you didn't disguise yourself so much, people would reach out to help.  Even if you feel hopeless, it's ok because your not by yourself, maybe if you said something then it would open the doors for others as well.  Never mind what society says, what say you?

Some people Make-up by apologizing for his or her actions.  If we paid more attention to the habits of others maybe we wouldn't have to make-up at all.   But again, how do you make-up?
Do you cover up your pain with a pretty picture or do you make-up due to your actions?  Think about it.  You've been XXposed, so embrace the Inner you and just "B.E" (beauty especially ).

Hair Gossip | How To Wear Commercial Hair

July 30, 2014

Ladies and Gents, when wearing commercial hair, it should look natural.  I see so many people wanting to hang with the JONES', like really.  Okay so here is a tip:
  • Your tracks or bond should not show
  • Your color should match the extensions or blend 
  • Purchase hair that matches your texture, not what you wish you had
  • Cleanse the hair as if it were you own, weekly, not once (1) a month
  • Purchase quality hair whether it's imported or or pre-packaged
  • Choose hair colors that compliment your skin, not colors you wished you could wear
  • Choose a length of hair you can easily care for, not just keeping up with the Kardashians
  • Make sure you seek a professional for proper installation of commercial hair
  • Be sure to protect your edges, since they are fragile

It's time someone says something. We can't keep allowing our sisters and brothers to wear horrible hair or look untamed.  Someone has to educate you on how to look and they should educate you on wearing extensions. Get XXposed to "B.E", we ca't talk about something and not offer solution, It's all about elevation and motivation.  We invite you to get XXposed by

Celebrate Self and Unveil the Inner You

Some of us don't know how to celebrate ourselves, nor celebrate others.  People look at me funny or wonder what my motives are just because I wanna see them successful.  Why would I not celebrate someone for their greatness, sometimes its another avenue to encourage someone to live his/her dreams.  We can plant a seed and embrace the journey when we are on the right path within ourselves.  Whenever I see someone  doing great things, it shows me how GOD works and when blessings are being cast I'm always in line.  Sometimes you have to celebrate others in order to see who you are.  People look at me crazy when I start dancing or scream with excitement over the progress they are making in their lives.  Don't get it twisted they also tend to look at me like," it's not that serious".  You can't tell me how to react to your greatness.  Maybe I'm dancing for you, silly. 
Celebrate self by feeding your soul daily on how amazing you are.  Afterall you do represent "B.E." ( Beauty Especially) and that means nothing but amazing within self. Learn to celebrate who you are no matter what.  I tell my friends and teach others that people are not always okay with you being who you are.  It represents the ying/yang of the world.  Feel comfortable in your own skin, sure people are gonna look at you crazy, because sometimes they wish they could do the same.  Consider yourself  XXposed and unveil the inner you.

Hair Etiquette | Hair Gossip

July 29, 2014


Let's talk hair, Healthy hair, Commercial hair, Damaged hair, Natural hair, Locs, etc  .Hair has so many forms, but let's start with " HAIR ETIQUETTE":


  • Do you know how to shampoo your hair ?
  • How often should I shampoo my hair ?
  • What type of shampoo should you use ? 
  • Is your hair oily, dry, damaged, normal, or combination ?
  • Are you allergic to sulfur? 
  • What type of conditioner do I use?
  • How should my hair feel ? 
  • Do you drink enough water ?

These are just a few questions to think about when taming your hair.

But here's the answer: Shampoo hair daily if you are caucasion w/ oily hair, ethnic is every 3 to 5 days based on the oil build-up in the hair. Don't purchase shampoos due to the smell, choose your shampoo according to the texture and scalp.  Many products have sulfur in them, so be sure to read the label and know the names for sulfur in case of allergic reaction. Choose the conditioner on the same product line as your shampoo choice.  After cleansing and conditioning the hair,, it should feel softer and detangle easy, if not I suggest your XXperienced stylist to clip those ends.  Stay tuned, because this hair thing has so many avenues.

B.E ( Beauty Especially )
by xxposurhair

Healing from Anger

If you know what angers you, then what makes you better? 

Some would say talk about it, some would say pray about it, some would say " get over it ", but what would you say ?  The ultimate decision on healing depends on you and its emphasized through your faith.  

Do you know what you are healing from? 

It's time to be better.  I always emphasize that you get better when you get sick and tired of being sick and tired.  We all go through some type of heartache, whether it be from a mate, friend, job, or family.  It's the getting over it, that makes more of an impact.  If you get past DAY 1, then honey you are off to a great start.  We must first diagnose our issue, then address it, then come up with a resolution versus sitting or internalizing pain.  

Sometimes you have to ask yourself: 

Have I been here before ?

If your answer is yes, then amen.  

Now, how do I get to the healing?  

Ultimately the answer is always in you, exercise your faith and have hope.  God wants us to be prisoners of hope, it builds character, it maximizes dreams, it helps you see where you are going and maybe where you wanna go.  When you can acknowledge what is going on with you internally, it will XXternally reveal the inner you.

B.E ( Beauty Especially ),
  by XXposurhair

Healthy Relationships

July 28, 2014

Is your relationship(s) healthy for you ?  It's something we should think about from time to time.  If it doesn't make you feel good or compliment you, then why do it ?  We often deal or carry on relationships that are not healthy for us.  When we compromise too much of ourselves we forget who we are.  If we treat our relationships like our bodies, then maybe we would make better decisions.  But we should remember we are human. Identify with who you are in order for you carry healthy relationships.  How we get along with or mother, fathers, siblings, etc may reflect what we attract.  Nothing can come into your life without an invitation.  Take the time to acknowledge your pain and your blessings so you can create balance and have healthier realationships.

Spiritual Image Consultant & Stylist

B.E. You and Welcome To xxPosUrHair

July 24, 2014

I believe in beauty inside and OUT! So I came up with the acronym "B.E."!
Beauty Especially
Beauty Especially is about total image, etiquette, empowerment and LOVE. It's not just what you wear or how you wear it, it's how you feel on the inside that allows you to xxPerience the inner you! So watch us "BE" amazing! It's not in some of us, it's in Every. Single. One. of us.

Get to know who you are and how you see you and tell them that you rep "BE" by xxPosurHair... where beauty represents spirituality!

I'm so very excited to finally introduce my new blog site. I hope you all find inspiration for beauty, spirituality and know that you are BEAUTIFUL ESPECIALLY!